Dating girls over 30
If you don’t yet have kids, evaluate whether or not the desire to eventually procreate is a deal-breaker.If your date hates children and you want six of them, the relationship has little long-term potential.She acknowledged ”there was no good reason to end things”, yet, at the time, she was convinced something was missing in the relationship. The other point being made in the article is that many women who spend their 20’s becoming powerful and independent (education, salary, etc.) often end up unhappy in their 30s.
You may be 30 and single but without a shadow of a doubt you are much much wiser than you were in your 20's and dating over 30 year olds is a totally different experience.
More important than getting married or raising children is being with the right person. Right Now, and don’t scare off a great gal with your impatience. With age comes wisdom; you’ve learned from past mistakes and now know what you need in a relationship and what you have to offer.
Just because your friends are at a different life stage doesn’t mean that you’re running to catch up. Learn to communicate your values and dreams without bitterness or urgency. You’re aware of your strengths and weaknesses, as will your date be aware of his/hers.
Tinder is "stupid and harmful because it only makes romantic human connection harder." It is also "a factory and you shouldn't pretend it's even vaguely romantic." And let's not forget that "the adult consequence of living with one’s decisions doesn’t really exist when the next best thing is only a swipe away."Most of the discussion around Tinder has focused on its core demographic: twentysomethings, gay and straight, in urban areas (New York and Los Angeles, where I live, are its two biggest markets), who seem to use Tinder to hook up, boost or masochistically deflate their ego, and/or issue sweeping, usually disparaging pronouncements about everyone they've ever encountered on it.
But I've now come to realize that even though all of the press around Tinder focuses on its popularity with twentysomethings, it's actually the perfect app for someone in their thirties, or older, to find love.
It's ok don't despair as love is literally at your fingertips, all you have to do is grab the opportunity and start dating over 30's singles!